Somatic sex & intimacy coaching · Pelvic floor specialist · Melbourne & online
Reconnect with your body,
pleasure & intimacy.
If you've ever thought 'sex should be better than this,' or found yourself longing for deeper connection — you're in exactly the right place.
I'm Ami. I work with individuals and couples in Melbourne and online to reconnect with their bodies, deepen intimacy, and find their way back to pleasure. Whether you're navigating a physical challenge, a relationship, or simply know there's more available to you, you're in the right place.
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Men
Men arrive here from different places. A body that isn't cooperating, performance anxiety, a relationship that has quietly drifted, or a sense that there's more available than what they've experienced so far. What most have in common is that they've run out of places to take it. GPs offer medication. Therapists talk. As a pelvic floor specialist and somatic intimacy coach in Melbourne, I work with men across the full range. From post-surgery recovery and erectile dysfunction to reconnecting with pleasure and becoming a more present, confident lover.
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Women
So many women arrive here having been told that what they are feeling is normal. Low libido after children, pelvic, menstrual or nerve pain, vulvodynia, difficulty reaching orgasm, struggle with communication in relationships, a quiet disconnection from pleasure that has been there so long they've stopped expecting it to change. It might be common but it's not normal, and it is usually not permanent. I work body-centred and am trauma-informed, so we can help you find yourself back to the body and pleasure you desire.
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Couples
Coming to couples coaching together is one of the most courageous things a couple can do, regardless if it’s to repair or explore. It means you both still believe something better is possible. Sexless relationships are more common than we want to admit, because talking about sex and especially what isn't working can be so painful. And this one I actually have experience with myself. Even knowing everything I know, I still needed outside help to find my way out. So if a sex and intimacy coach struggled with it, anyone can get trapped.
"From the moment I went into session with Ami, I felt totally comfortable and safe. Ami has this incredible quality of being able to entirely focus on you, where you are, leaving you in no doubt that you are welcome to be fully yourself. She radiates a calm energy which is perfect for holding space."
— Amanda Sparkles, birth trauma
Ready for Your Next Step?
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Book A Consultation Call
We will discuss your desires and see which type of session would be most ideal for your needs, and for you to ask any questions you might have.
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Create A Plan Together
We will set an intention for you and see which tools will help you get there regardless if it's around relationships, communication or sexual issues.
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Have the Experience
Regardless if we are doing bodywork, coaching in person or online, the biggest difference in working with me is that we will create a transformative experience for you.
Pelvic Floor Bodywork
Therapeutic hands-on work for pelvic floor issues in men and women. I can support you in reconnecting with your body, reducing and sometimes reversing nerve damage, increasing sensation, and helping you develop a new, amazing intimacy with yourself and with a partner. When the body isn't cooperating, talking only goes so far. My pelvic floor bodywork sessions address specific physical issues including nerve pain, numbness, vulvodynia, pain during sex, ED, premature ejaculation, prolapse, post-birth recovery and post-prostate surgery recovery.
Somatic Intimacy Coaching
Most of us were never taught how to relate, how to communicate, or how to stay present when intimacy gets hard. Whether you're single and caught in a pattern, in a relationship that has quietly drifted, or navigating something in between, somatic intimacy and relationship coaching works with your nervous system, not against it. Combining conversation with embodied practice, we get underneath what talk alone doesn't reach. For individuals and couples, in person in Melbourne or online. The goal is always the same: to feel more at home with yourself.
Workshops & Intensives
Group work, for anyone ready to learn by doing rather than just reading about it. Workshops run regularly in Melbourne on consent, erotic touch, communication and body connection, for singles, couples and the curious. They are practical, embodied and designed to give you tools you can actually use.
The Intimacy Intensive returns in September 2026 with a new group format for individuals and couples ready to go deep.
Hello, I'm Ami, and I hold space for real intimacy.
I'm a certified somatic sex and relationship coach through the Somatica Method and trauma-informed practice. I'm also a tantric bodyworker and pelvic floor specialist, and a Wheel of Consent teacher in training. I found my way to this work through my own body.
I started as a chemical engineer, which led me into a burnout that stopped me completely, and a long path back through somatic trauma release, bodywork, tantra and somatic practices. That lived experience, not just training, is what matters in how I show up for you.
What People Are Saying
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"Since experiencing nerve damage when my prostate was removed (due to cancer diagnosis), I am no longer able to achieve an erection... Most particularly, if you are a male challenged by erectile dysfunction, Ami is the practitioner for you. No judgement and no performance issues, simply a lovely indulgence in self pleasure."
Anonymous, Melbourne, December 2025
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"We are finding a lot of value in our learnings. Already put a lot of it into practice... it feels like we have been transformed in the best ways. Thank you so so much, Ami!"
Nicole and Mike, 3-hour In-Person Tantric Ritual, Melbourne, October 2025